Half the comments here are the same three things. It's either "I'm not attractive enough", "I've cold approached 3000 women with nothing to show for it", and that "the apps don't work so it's over for me". And most of you dudes have the conclusion that it is because women are shallow and only want 10/10 models. That's the easy answer and it's wrong.
You don't need to be a 10, you need to clear a woman's minimum attraction threshold, and since that threshold is different for every woman, the only thing in your control is making yourself as attractive as you can: go gym, build a career and start making $, sort your skincare out, and start learning to dress properly. Then stop cold approaching strangers who arnt giving you reciprocity as a strategy and start showing up in third spaces where you can meet woman organically. Things like social sport, climbing, run clubs, classes etc where talking to people is normal and repeated interaction gives your personality a chance to actually register
And no I'm not a woman, but it's the easy answer to just say women are shallow and that's why you're not successful. Mofo we are just as shallow, how many of us would love to go for a Megan Fox over the average girl standing next to her. Men have the advantage that there are multiple avenues to increasing attraction than just looks card so use it!!
Women in this sub say this constantly if you bother to read it. Most of you seem to scroll past it because it's slower and less satisfying than blaming them
